Comments on: it’s not always pretty

By: Mixing Bowl Mama

Mixing Bowl Mama — Thu, 18 Jun 2009 15:51:31 +0000

Poor you…I think you have every right to be scattered. It’s hard to take care of you when you take such good care of others. I’ve been in the same boat, definitely, and I’m sure most of us have. Vent all you need to…it’s what’s other Mom’s are here for…
I hope the week gets better….
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By: Andrea

Andrea — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 20:44:51 +0000

I can’t imagine how hard (and wonderful it is for you sometimes, all of these changes ALL the time, everything is a ‘first’. That is hard!! You’re learning, they’re learning…be kind to yourself and give it time, you’re doing an amazing job

Re: women & food..its sooo tough. The other posters are definitely helpful with their suggestions! If I’m craving something I usually try to go for almonds..or a peanut butter smoothie does the trick to ease the sweet tooth.

This brings to mind something my friend told me a few months ago:
I was feeling particularly bad about myself that day, I moodily started talking about how ugly I felt, how fat I felt etc etc… My friend stopped, looked at me and said:

‘Everytime you say something bad about yourself, imagine every tiny cell in your body screaming “i’m ugly, i’m fat”. Then think about all of that negative energy you’re sending yourself & the harm its doing your body. You need to start with loving yourself & the rest will follow.’

She made me think with that comment. Simple as it is, I usually catch myself when I’m directing negative energy inwardly (or outwardly for that matter!). I don’t know how helpful that story is, however it did seem to help me out a little…so I thought I’d share

You are a wonderful, strong, beautiful mom Elle!

By: Anna

Anna — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 16:11:09 +0000

Elle, I think I went through this crazy feeling a few months ago (which makes sense since Levi is a few months older than your girls)–and I can’t imagine having the double trouble (in a good way). When the kids make big changes, whether that is their eating or their physical maneuvering, it can throw you for a loop. Sounds like you got some great ideas about healthy eating from other posters. Hang in there!

By: Heather

Heather — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 00:43:40 +0000

Oh my GOODNESS! How could you NOT be scattered? I wanted to wrap Jake in bubble wrap with a helmet when he started walking around…danger everywhere! But, I have to say you’ll probably be exercising quite a bit now that they’re standing and moving around. I thought I was going to have permanent back problems, but as Jake got steadier…it did get easier. Diet later, and go easy on yourself…you’re doing great!
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By: elle

elle — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 13:46:58 +0000

Great suggestions Laurie. I’m always making veggies for the girls and I can always make a little more for myself then add it to already prepared quinoa or brown rice when I am in a hurry. It just takes a little more planning to eat well.

By: elle

elle — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 13:44:35 +0000

Thanks for your honesty Minnie. It’s nice to have support when things aren’t as you would like them to be.

By: Laurie

Laurie — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 13:34:07 +0000

It’s really hard to keep eating healthy with a little one. I struggle too and I am a nutritionist! You get so focussed on getting the babies fed, clothed, diapers changed, chasing them down from things, and then it starts all over again. It’s hard to find time to eat between that … no wonder mothers are starving & just grab whatever they can! Try and keep a container of cooked grains in the firdge (brown rice, quinoa, etc). You can always grab it, throw in some veggies, a bit of salad dressing & nuts and you have a healthy lunch. And don’t feel bad if you grab something less than desired. There’s always tomorrow (or maybe next month?!). Stay positive… Good intentions are half the battle!

By: Minnie

Minnie — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 07:07:27 +0000

Elle, It’s so awful that most of us women have this relationship with food, much of it indoctrinated by society and the people around us. I always marvel at old paintings of women and how it was considered beautiful to be bigger back then. Of course, now we know it’s healthier to be a little leaner but our attitudes toward food are not always so healthy. Just know that your battle is not a lonely battle. Many of us struggle with this issue as well. Also, it’s tough raising two little ones, especially when they are just beginning to crawl and teethe, no less!
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